Facing a solar panel dilemma? A homeowner's dream of harnessing the sun's energy is being blocked by a neighbor's aging tree, and the question is: can they politely request its removal? This is the core issue at the heart of a recent Dear Abby column, and it's a situation many of us can relate to.
Published on November 4, 2025, this advice column tackles a common problem: a home renovation project stalled by external factors. In this case, our letter writer completed a house renovation last year, leaving them with a south-facing roof perfectly positioned for solar panel installation. The utility company offers a valuable incentive program to reduce equipment costs, but it expires in just six months.
The only obstacle? A tall, old tree on the neighboring property that casts a shadow over the roof. The tree isn't just a shade-giver; it's also showing signs of age, with cracks and a history of dropping branches. Previous owners of the house had to repair their front windows and gutter after a large branch fell during a storm.
The neighbors, a young couple with a baby, are friendly but not close friends. The homeowner wonders if it's too forward to offer to pay for the tree's removal. After all, property rights can be a sensitive subject. But, the homeowner is also hoping to maintain a positive relationship with the neighbors while moving forward with their project.
Dear Abby's advice is straightforward. Because a friendly relationship already exists, the homeowner should explain the problem. They should mention the previous damage caused by falling branches and highlight the potential danger the tree poses to the baby. Abby suggests offering to cover the cost of removal.
But here's where it gets controversial... Should the homeowner have any expectation that the neighbors will agree? Some might argue that the tree is on the neighbor's property, and they have the right to keep it. Others might say the potential hazard justifies the request.
This situation highlights the delicate balance between property rights, neighborly relations, and personal goals. It's a reminder that sometimes, even the most well-intentioned projects can run into unexpected roadblocks.
What do you think? Would you approach your neighbors in this situation? Do you think the homeowner's request is reasonable? Share your thoughts in the comments below!
This Dear Abby column is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.
Jeanne Phillips, also known as Abigail Van Buren, has written the advice column “Dear Abby” since 2000, responding knowledgeably with the wit and compassion that earns her the loyalty of millions of fans.
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